BUT there is a problem with that. Friends, if a child even has any- lots don't, are human. Sinful. Selfish. Less than perfect. We all are! I am not always a good friend even though I know I should be. I'm not always there for my friends in the way I wish I was. There are times when I feel so down myself I don't feel like giving anything to my friend who may be discouraged also. It seems to me like they are giving a hopeLESS message to kids. Kids are going to set too high expectations on their friends. Or they will be wishing for a friend to help solve their problems and their need for acceptance.
I'm not trying to be a pessimist. See there IS an answer. I let my kids listen to songs about friends too. One of my favorites? "I am a Friend of God". I promise HE will never let them down. He'll always be there for them and will accept them and can solve all their problems.
Our family as a rule does not listen to secular music. Not because I think it's all bad but because I want their hope to be in something/ Someone secure. I hear the lyrics to songs on the radio while in stores. Words like, "I'm lost without you", "I need you", "You give me reason to live", "I'm obsessed with you"... What a set up for disappointment! What a false reality! I'd way rather my kids sing "I need you JESUS to come to my rescue" or "You are my magnificent obsession" or " You give me reason to rejoice", "You have made me glad", "In Christ alone my hope is found, He is my life, my strength, my song"......
Anyway, everything I saw on Nickelodeon that morning was interesting. I'm not saying it was bad. I'm just saying that a lot of people of put a lot of time into trying to give kids a positive message. But it's not a message that can offer them true hope or take care of their real problem. Sin. No friend on earth can take care of their sin problem or their eternity. But there is a Friend who can- and that's Who my family will sing about : )

They could both use your prayers. They will have a very intense week of training to learn Bible lessons and counseling methods, how to teach Bible memory verses, songs, and so so much more. After that week of training, they will both be teaching 3 5-Day Clubs a day for 5 weeks. They will be tired I'm sure! They also have to raise their support by the middle of June. They are excited and have already started memorizing the required verses and have been reading the stories they are going to be teaching right from the source of all truth -the Bible. Please pray for them (and Matt as he too will be teaching and overseeing the clubs this summer) as they prepare for ministry this summer.
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